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Izinto Ezingu-50 Ozozenza Ngabangane Abangaphumi Ukuyothenga Iziphuzo

Ukuba mdala kunzima. Isitobhi esigcwele. Izinto ezingenakubalwa zisenza sifise sengathi singabuyela emuva ebuntwaneni. Izintela (eqinisweni, phezulu), amaphutha omsebenzi, umshwalense—izinto ezicindezela impilo ngokuvamile. Konke kuzwakala kuningi uma ungenamuntu ngaphandle kwakho ozokubambisa. Futhi yebo, ubungane—ukubenza nokubagcina—kuyabala, futhi.

Kodwa kungani? Siyabathanda abangani bethu. Bangabantu esihleba kubo, esithulula kubo isifuba, futhi sabelane nabo yonke into. (Futhi, banikeza ukuzijabulisa okungapheli lapho sinesithukuthezi.) Abangane basenza sihleke futhi basikhumbuze ukuthi asisodwa emizweni yethu, ezinkingeni, nasezinseleleni zethu. Nokho, ukuphila kunendlela yokwenza izinto zibe nzima. Ngakho-ke themba: sonke sifuna izinto esingazenza nabangani ukuze sihlale singaguquguquki futhi siqhubeka singena kulobu budlelwano obubalulekile.

Isithombe esifakiwe engxoxweni yethu no-Jessie no-Brian De Lowe.

Izinto Ezingu-50 Zokudala Ozozenza Ngabangane Ukuze Uqinise Ubudlelwano Bakho

Kulula ukubuthatha kalula ubungane bethu, ngoba kunezinga elithile lokwethembana elenza ubudlelwano busebenze. Ngihlala ngizithola ngithumelela abangani imiyalezo ngemva kweviki lonke kuthulekile ngale ndlela evamile: “Omg, ngiyaxolisa kakhulu! Bengimatasatasa.” (Ubani ongeyena?) Kodwa kulo nyaka, ngifuna ukuvumelanisa izenzo zami nezinhloso zami, ngiqinisekise ukuthi ngichitha isikhathi, umzamo, nothando ebudlelwaneni bami. Indlela elula yokuqala? Ngokubheka yonke imibono engezansi. Asingene kukho.

  1. Abantu bayabuka. Enye yezinjabulo zami (eziningi) ezingenacala. Hambani epaki ndawonye, ​​nithole ikhofi, noma nihambe nihambe. Yakha izimo zabo bonke abantu obadlulayo. Kumnandi kakhulu futhi kuwumsebenzi omuhle wokudala, futhi.

2. Vakashela imakethe yomlimi. Indlela elula yokwenza impilo yakho ibe yothando, ndawonye. Thatha obhasikidi bakho bemakethe, izikhwama ezisebenziseka kabusha, futhi uhambe ngomqondo ovulekile. Amaphuzu ebhonasi uma wenza isidlo sasemini ngokutholile.

3. Hlela izimbali. Ingabe kukhona okunye okujabulisa ngaphezu kwalokho? Yiya emakethe yezimbali yasendaweni noma kwa-Trader Joe’s. Yeba le mibono yokwenza ama-bouquets amahle.

4. Hamba ngebhayisikili. Khetha usuku oluhle futhi uhambe umjikelezo. Ngithanda ukwenza imephu umzila futhi ngigcine esitolo sekhofi esihle ukuze ngithole ikhofi noma isidlo sasemini.

5. Hlola ingadi yezitshalo. Amadolobha amaningi ngisho namadolobhana avame ukuba nezingadi zezitshalo. Ziyindawo enhle yokuthola ukuthula kancane futhi uvumele ubuhle bemvelo bukukhuthaze.

6. Yiba nepikiniki. Njengoba isimo sezulu sishisa, asikho isikhathi esingcono sokudla i-al fresco. Sikuphakamisele kanzima futhi sikukhethele zonke izindlela zokupheka ezingcono kakhulu zepikiniki. Okusele nje ukukha iwayini, upakishe ubhasikidi wakho, bese ucwilisa kusihlwa esishiswe yilanga.

7. Yenza i-pizza kusukela ekuqaleni. Kumnandi, kunobuhle, futhi kulula kunalokho ocabanga ngakho. U-Camille ubonisa ukuthi kwenziwa kanjani.

8. Yiba nosuku lolwandle. Uma uhlala eduze nolwandle noma ichibi, thola ithuba! Pakisha izinto zakho zokubhukuda, ukufundwa okuhle kolwandle, nayo yonke i-SPF.

9. Hlela uhambo lwempelasonto. I-PSA: Uhambo lwangempelasonto akudingekile ukuba lugxile ebudlelwaneni bakho bezothando. Khetha indawo yokubaleka eduzane (ngithola ukuthi phakathi kwerediyasi yamahora amabili ngemoto iphelele). Khetha idethi, bhukha ihhotela elihle noma izihambi, futhi ubheke ngabomvu impelasonto yakho ungekho.

10. Yiba nephathi yokuhlanza amakhabethe. Ukuhlanza ikhabethe lakho kuyinqubo futhi iningi lethu eliyesabayo. Mema abangani bakho ukuze bakusekele ngokokuziphatha—ungabethemba ukuthi bazokutshela uma ufuna ngempela ukugcina leyo ngubo ongakaze uyigqoke.

11. Yenza isidlo sakusihlwa. Akukhona nje ukuthi lokhu kulula kumsingathi, kodwa nonke nizokwazi ukuletha izitsha ozithandayo futhi ubonise amakhono akho okupheka. Ungakwazi ukubeka ukudla phakathi kwetimu noma ukudla okukhethekile. Yabela wonke umuntu isifundo futhi ulungele ukuzitika.

12. Phuma uyophuza itiye eliphezulu. Amaphathi etiye? Umqondo omuhle njalo. Amadolobha amaningi anezindawo ongaya kuzo ukuze uthole itiye noma ungabamba eyodwa ekhaya. Futhi ngenkathi ngithanda itiye, ngikhona ngempela ukuze ngithole ukudla okulula kobuhle.

13. Yenza amabhodi ombono. Futhi bonakalisa izimpilo zamaphupho enu, ndawonye. Qalisa ngomhlahlandlela wethu ophelele wokugibela ngombono.

14. Bake-off. Enye indlela yokuqamba: ukunambitha. Khetha uhlobo lokubhakwa okuhle (ikhekhe le-carrot, ama-brownies, amakhukhi we-chocolate chip, njll). Bese, wonke umuntu ekhetha iresiphi yakhe ayintandokazi bese eletha amaswidi ukuze iqembu liwanambitha. Kuyajabulisa futhi kumnandi – ukubhanqa okuphelele.

15. Funda ikhono elisha. Ukunitha, ukuthunga, i-calligraphy, ukudweba—akukho ukuphela kuzo zonke izindlela eziningi ongafunda futhi uzikhulise. Yiyani ekilasini ndawonye noma nibuke amavidiyo ku-YouTube futhi nizilolonge nibe abaqalayo ndawonye.

16. Vakashela imnyuziyamu. Bheka okunikezwayo edolobheni lakho bese ukhetha isihloko—ubuciko, umlando, isayensi—wonke umuntu afuna ukujula ngaso. Ukuya kumamnyuziyamu nabangani kuhle, ngoba ungaxoxa ngezinto ozithole ezithakazelisayo noma othanda ukufunda kabanzi ngazo.

17. Hlela idethi yekhofi ephindelelayo. Sonke sikwenzile: sithole ikhofi nomngane futhi saqeda usuku ngokuthi “Kufanele sikwenze lokhu futhi maduze!” Futhi… awusoze wenze. Khetha i-cadence kanye nosuku lweviki futhi nizibophezele ekubambeni ikhofi ndawonye. Kuyindlela ephansi yokuhlola nabangani bakho njalo. Futhi hey, sonke sidinga ikhofi kungakhathaliseki.

18. Qala iklabhu yezincwadi. Kanye ngenyanga, khetha incwadi enifuna ukuyifunda nobabili futhi nihlangane ukuze nixoxe. Yebo: ubambekile *empeleni* ukhuluma ngencwadi.

19. Zibhaleleni ikusasa lenu izincwadi. Lona umsebenzi wokwelapha ojulile futhi okhuthazayo ukwenza uwedwa, kodwa kungcono nakakhulu nabangane. Cabanga ngalokho ofuna ukukuzuza nokuthi ufuna ukukhula kanjani eminyakeni emihlanu, eyishumi, noma eyishumi nanhlanu. Zibhalele wena amaphupho akho namathemba akho—nokuthi yini ezwakala ibalulekile futhi ibalulekile kuwena manje. Yivale kuze kube yilapho usulungele ukuyivula.

20. Hlela ukuthwebula izithombe. Futhi ukwenze okwengeziwe. Hlela izingubo zakho, thola ugqozi ku-Pinterest, khetha indawo futhi uthole konke okuqukethwe.

21. Hambani niyokhempa. Zibandakanye nohlangothi lwakho lwangaphandle. Khetha isayithi eliseduze noma uphumele egcekeni lakho. Kubalwa ngokuphelele.

22. Vakashela indawo yokukhosela izilwane. Noma ngabe uyavolontiya, vele uvakashele imidlwane, noma uhambe nekati esandleni, lena indlela ephelele yokuchitha amahora ambalwa nabangani.

23. Bhalani amakhadi ndawonye. Ubani ongathandi ukuthola inothi elibhalwe ngesandla? Layisha amakhadi amahle, yenza itiye noma ikhofi, futhi uhlale phansi amahora ambalwa okubhala amakhadi.

24. Exchange ukunakekelwa amaphakheji. Sonke sinalowo mngane webanga elide esifisa sengathi singambona kaningi. Hlela iphakethe lokunakekela elicatshangelwayo ngazo zonke izinto abazithandayo—ukudla okulula, okumnandi, nezinto ezincane—kanye nenothi elimnandi ozicabangayo.

25. Yiya esifundweni. Umuntu wakho wasekolishi angase acabange ukuthi lokhu kuyinhlekisa, kodwa into enhle ngokuba umuntu omdala ukuthi ungakwazi ukuhlola amakilasi ukuze ujabule. Phequlula iwebhusayithi yekolishi yangakini noma yenyuvesi ukuze uthole ulwazi olwengeziwe mayelana nezinketho zabo zokucwaninga. Kulula kakhulu ukuncika othandweni lwakho lokufunda ngaphandle kwengcindezi ye-acing test.

26. Uhambo losuku oluya edolobheni elincane. Phuma edolobheni usuku lonke futhi uyohlola. Vakashela izitolo zekhofi zendawo, ama-boutiques amancane, nezindawo zokudlela.

27. Chitha intambama uphenya omagazini. Ingane yami ichitha amahora amaningi ithela omagazini bakamama—futhi nginohlobo lwabangane abathanda ukuzitika ngabo. Dala inqwaba yakho konke okuthandayo okufundayo futhi ufinyelele ekuphequluleni.

28. Qala iphodikasti. Mhlawumbe ukuzibophezela okukhulu nomzamo omkhulu kulolu hlu, kodwa amaphodikhasti wami amaningi engiwathandayo asingathwa ama-bestie duos. Khetha isihloko eningaxoxa ngaso nobabili amahora amaningi ngaso (ukuphila kahle, ubugebengu bangempela, imicimbi yamanje, njll.) bese niqala ukuhlela.

29. Hamba uyothenga ezitolo. Indlela elula yokwanelisa umkhuba wakho wokuthenga ngaphandle kokusebenzisa amathani emali.

30. Hamba emizileni yangakini. Hlanganisa ama-sneaks akho bese uphuma ngaphandle amahora ambalwa ndawonye. Ukuzivocavoca nokuzijabulisa—kuwukuwina.

31. Gxila-bukela izinhlelo owawuzithanda useyingane. Ngoba i-Disney Channel ayisoze yafa. Inqwaba yezinkundla zokusakaza zisanikeza imibukiso eminingi ehamba phambili kusukela kuma-90s kanye ne-aughts. Zilungiselele amahora ambalwa wokubuka ngaphandle kwecala.

32. Bamba ithimba lokubhala. Njengombhali, ngiyakuthola: kungaba usizo kakhulu ukuba nomuntu ozokubophezela emsebenzini wakho wezandla nokuthi ubani ongakhipha imibono kuye. Hlanganani amahora amabili: ihora elilodwa elinikezelwe ekubhaleni kanti elinye elokubuyekeza nokuphawula.

33. Yenzani uhlu lokudlala ndawonye. Ingabe umculo wakho udinga ukunyakaziswa kancane? I-Spotify yenza kube lula ukudala uhlu lwadlalwayo oluhlanganyelwe. Yabelana ngezingoma zakho eziyintandokazi nabaculi futhi ulungele ukuzizwa ukhuthazekile. Ukukhetha uhlu lwadlalwayo kwenza kube nengxoxo egeleza kalula, futhi.

34. Qasha i-Getaway cabin. Ayixhasiwe, kodwa ngiluthande lonke uhambo lwe-Getaway engiluthathile. Amakhabethe amancanyana atholakala phakathi nohambo lwamahora amabili ukusuka emadolobheni amaningi futhi eza nazo zonke izinsiza ozidingayo ngempelasonto ngaphandle. Ngiyibheka njenge-glamping-lite. Vele ulethe ibhodlela lewayini futhi ulungele ukujabulela ukuthula.

35. Yenza i-scrapbook. Obunye ubufakazi bokuthi zonke izinto esasithanda ukuzenza njengezingane zisazwakala. Ungakwazi ukusebenza ku-scrapbook yakho siqu noma udale eyodwa ndawonye. Kungumsebenzi ojabulisayo, wokudala nozwelayo.

36 Phekelanani ukudla okuthandayo. Ingabe ikhona indlela engcono yokutshela othile ukuthi uyamthanda? Mema umngane wakho esidlweni sakhe asithandayo. Ngoba ukudla kuwulimi lothando lwawo wonke umuntu.

37. Ziqeqesheleni umjaho ndawonye. Thola i-5K endaweni yakini eyenzeka ezinyangeni ezimbalwa futhi nakhe isimiso sokuqeqesha ndawonye. Kuyindlela enhle yokungagcini nje ngokuzizwa uphumelele, kodwa ukugijima ndawonye masonto onke kusho ukuthi uzobona abangani bakho abaningi emavikini azayo.

38. Hlela ukushintshanisa amakhukhi. Akuzona nje ezamaholide! Landela lo mhlahlandlela wokuhlela okungenazihibe.

39. Yenza iphathi yasengadini. Umbuthano engiwukhonzile uma isimo sezulu sivuma. Hlela imenyu egqugquzelwe ngezikhathi ezithile zonyaka ngemali yokugibela emibalabala. Ikhodi yokugqoka: okugqama kwakho nokuhamba phambili.

40. Yenza izimbiza eziqinisekisayo. Thola imbiza ye-Mason, usike iziqephu zamaphepha, bese ubhala iziqinisekiso ezivumayo ezizwakala kakhulu. Ngiyathanda ukwenza iziqinisekiso zibe yingxenye yendlela yami yasekuseni, futhi uzocabanga abangani bakho ngaso sonke isikhathi uma ukwenza.

41. Bheka uhlelo lwamahlaya. Ngeke ngiqambe amanga, empeleni angikaze ngikwenze lokhu. Kodwa! Sekuphele izinyanga abangane bami bengicela ukuba ngihambe nabo, futhi ngizwile ukuthi kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuchitha ubusuku bangoLwesihlanu noma ngoMgqibelo. Ukuhleka nabangani bakho—yini engajabulisi ngalokho?

42. Thatha iphrojekthi yokubhaka. I-Meringue, i-macarons, ikhekhe elihlotshisiwe nelingaphezulu-phezulu-kunezinselelo eziningi zokubhaka ongachitha amahora kuzo. Khetha iresiphi futhi ulungele ukwenza isiphithiphithi esihle nesimnandi.

43. Thathani ikilasi lokujima ndawonye. Lokhu kube yilokhu engiye ngakho kamuva nje nabangani. Ngithanda ukuya ku-yoga noma isitudiyo sami se-barre3 sendawo futhi ngibambe ikhofi ngemuva kwalokho. Yini ekukhuthazayo kunokuhambisa umzimba wakho nabangani?

44. Dala uhlu lwamabhakede ohambo. Ndawonye, ​​xoxani ngazo zonke izindawo ongathanda ukuzivakashela nabangani. Ziphuphe futhi uhlele uhambo lwaminyaka yonke ukuze uqale ukuhlola uhlu lwakho.

45. Thatha ikilasi lezitsha zobumba. Wonke umuntu uyakwenza. Ungahamba ube mncane ngekilasi likapende-lakho izitsha zobumba noma ubhalisele isifundo se-ceramics samaviki amade. Uzohamba nento enhle futhi eyakho ngokuphelele.

46. ​​Vakashela u-pick farm. Izithelo ezintsha nemifino ozikhethele yona? Ngibhalise. Ama-apula, amajikijolo, amapentshisi—uhlu luyaqhubeka. Engikuthandayo ukuvakashela ipulazi lezimbali, ngicwiliswe umoya, futhi ngiphindele ekhaya ngesixha sezimbali ezinhle.

47. Chitha usuku emanzini. Yiya epaki lendawo noma echibini futhi uqashe i-kayak noma isikebhe. Yomibili le misebenzi iyindlela elungele abaqalayo futhi ejabulisayo yokujabulela amanzi ngaphandle kokumanziswa.

48. Skim izitaki zangakini. Ngiyohlala ngilimela iqiniso lokuthi imitapo yolwazi ingenye yezinto ezinhle kakhulu esingaba nazo ekuphileni. Phequlula amashalofu ndawonye futhi uhambe nenqwaba yokufunda.

49. Faka ingadi yakho. Ukuxhumana nomhlaba akuyona nje into ejabulisayo—futhi kuwumsebenzi wokuzola nokuphumula. Ingabe ukutshala, ukunquma, noma ngisho nokuhlakula. Ngokujulile, akukho lutho oludambisa ingcindezi njengokukhipha ukhula olulukhulu olumbalwa.

50. Yenza ubucwebe. DIY izinhliziyo zenu. Thela iwayini noma ikhofi futhi wenze ubuciko. Inqubo imnandi futhi uzogqoka zonke izinto ezicwebezelayo uma usuqedile.




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